Sunday, October 16, 2011

Teens - Are They Really That Hard to Raise?



When parents get together, talk often turns into a problem they have with their children. When children have children, they talk about the "Terrible couple" and its charming little baby turned into a monster that knows only one word. NO!. When their children are older, talk turns to their tweens want everything they see on television, and how we get the girls to wear decent clothes that do not show more than they want other people to see our little darling?

But it is when it comes to turning young parents really let it all hang out. Teenagers are so stubborn, so the opposition, and tend to their own way, and just doing what you do. How can parents get them to cooperate, listen, do their homework, pick up your clothes and do a few chores around the house without any arguments? Why are teenagers so mean and grumpy all the time? Why do they like that stupid music and hang around with these weird friends?

It would help if parents think back to "Terrible pairs" that have passed through his youth, when teenagers were toddlers. Shortly afterwards, her children are trying to move on from being a helpless baby more independent small children who could walk and talk, and do not need their parents to do everything for them. They were moving along the spectrum that goes from child to adult. This is what youth are doing, they just further along the spectrum.

already can do many things for themselves, but are not completely independent. They feel pressure to act more adult, but I also feel that their parents and teachers continue to treat them like children. College is coming up. Jobs, learning to drive, dating, and equipping of your friends ... All these things can cause the normally bland teen meltdown and get stressed.

So what can parents do to help young people get through this stressful time? Well, probably the best thing you can do is stop thinking of youth as a problem. Stop expecting teenage son or daughter is going to change overnight, the snarling bundle of raging hormones. It is a myth. Most teenagers, while some problems with his parents, still considered their family the center of their lives.

Parents can help you listen to and involve young people in decisions that shape their lives. Do not take it for granted that your child goes to college immediately after high school. You might want to take some time to think about whether college is the right move for them. It will not hurt to put college on hold for a year, while some work experience and do some research.

radical approach leaving the teen home school. Whether you use a curriculum or not, home schooling can remove a lot of pressure and stress that affect young people who go to school. To stay in touch with their friends, teens can usually still take some classes at school and go to extra-curricular activities. Home schooling also allows teens to get more sleep and take away the constant battle for homework.

if your teen goes to school or learn at home, your relationship may not be turbulent. Just keep in mind that your teenager is learning to be more independent, just like when they were two. You can also survived those years and the child can survive the teen years with their relationship intact.

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